Will you choose the one who loves you or the one you love?

I believe that many people have encountered this situation, when you love someone but didn’t get any response, then suddenly appear a person who loves you, you do not know whether to continue to love the one you love and bravely wait, or learn to let go and try to accept this person who loves you.

What I want to say is that if you slowly receive some responses from the person you love, even if that person loves you far less than you love him/her, you deserve to fight for it. If not, then please learn to let go.

Love is mutual, it is necessary for both sides to work together.


Love is like a flower that needs fresh blood to be watered to grow. If only one person giving out, it won’t last long.

There are things that can’t be forced, love is one of them.

But remember, when you decide to let go and get to know the person who loves you, don’t try to find the shadow of the person you love in him/her. Don’t think of him/her as a substitute for others. It will be a great injustice to him/her.

He/she will think that it was his/her effort that touched you but did not expect that you did not love the real him/her, but the person you love in your fantasies.

Such love is not pure at all.

If you are lucky enough to get a response from the person you love and decide to keep working hard, I admire your courage and bless you. No matter what the end result, it is worth respecting to be a person who dares to love.

If the worst happened: the person you love doesn’t end up falling in love with you, and the person who loves you also leave you.

Don’t complain that the person who loves you has no sincerity, in fact, he/she is also another you, but she made different choices when facing the same problem.

Don’t regret the decision you made, because you are not wrong, no one can foresee the future, and you are just being a brave self.

In this case, whether you choose the person you love or the person who loves you, in fact, there is no correct answer to this.

Because this is love.

This uncertainty and full of variables are exactly where it’s charm lies.

You won’t know who you’re going to fall in love with, when you will fall in love with him/her, how long you will love him/her.

You will also won’t know who will fall in love with you, when will fall in love with you, and how long he/she will love you.

All of these are up to you to decide.

If you want to get the perfect outcome, it is best for you to not touch love.