It’s been more than two years since I graduated and start working. In the process, I learned that there are things that you will only understand after you start working. These are some of the things that I learned throughout my working years.
1, One person’s ability is extremely limited. Do not overestimate your actual ability. List a variety of tedious plans, such as “must read a book every week, must run a few kilometers every day, must go to bed at 10”.
This seems to be a good habit, but in essence, it is a big mistake, there are many emergencies in life, It is impossible for a person to be able to perform everything perfectly on time according to the schedule.
Therefore, once you give up for some reasons, or do less and did not meet the standards, you will feel defeated, feel that you are bad at persisting. But in fact, this is completely your psychological problem. Remember this: “work hard doesn’t need to be too fierce, but seek constancy.”
2, Useless social will let you lose your own thoughts, left only the shell, and flow with the crowd.
3, All the arrogance and publicity you have will make you suffer in this society. It will make you understand what is pain and what is despair, it will also make you understand what is modesty and what is low-key.
4, Book can give you endless power.
5, If you want to do something, ascetic, reticent, meditate, and hard work, these four are indispensable.
6, You are the only person in the world who you can rely on your whole life. So treat yourself well.
7, Friends can only share the joy, do not share the distress.
8, The vigor is very important, good health is fundamental.
9, Put away your jealousy and anxiety. When others succeed, cheer for others, listen to the joy of others. When we succeed, we enjoy the applause of others and feel our joy.
10, Don’t “drag” your old friends on the road, find “fellow” friends on the road.
11, Stay away from people who are always complaining. The most disgusting thing in the world is an angry face; the dirtiest thing in the world is to put up the angry face for others to see, which is worse than arguing.
12, Patience is the key to determining the height and depth of life in the future.
13, The arena of life, the school is the starting line, society is the real beginning.
14, Put others denigrate in the dust; And leave the others for your favor on marbles. -Ben Franklin
15, If you want to change, you have to step out of the circle that you are already familiar with, set foot on the lap you used to think is difficult, recognize it, challenge it, overcome it, and then you will find that once you think it is difficult to be difficult things, in fact, it’s not that difficult.
16, The most terrible thing in the world is not “things”, but the thought in your “heart.”
If the heart is afraid, no doubt you will fail.
17, Innate talent is not a thing to be proud of, the day after the effort to achieve great achievements is really worthy of admiration. In other words, people with flat talent but has “great perseverance”, is the real genius.
18, How many people, when studying at school, destroyed on “Saturday & Sunday”; How many people, after graduating and start working, were destroyed on “Sunday.”
This word, too confusing, when first look at it, it gives people a feeling of “free, good to relax, do not have to get up early, can sleep, happy, rest” and so on a series of messages.
It is this short two-day holiday, formed many people’s fixed habits, destroyed many people habit developed from Monday to Friday, like a hill piled up with sand, every time it collapses when it is only half.
19, Disappointment of a friend, most of it comes from what the other person says and does not meet the standards he is asking for. And I think that friends cannot be asked for, not at all because we have no right to do that.
20, Every now and then go away, have a little relaxation, for when you come back to your work your judgment will be surer. Go some distance away because then the work appears smaller and more of it can be taken in at a glance and a lack of harmony and proportion is more readily seen. -Da Vinci
Learn to accept defects, everyone will have some flaws, don’t go too extreme even when it’s a good trait or habit. It can do harm instead.
Persistence, is the most valuable kind of quality, but also very painful, this pain is like you just eat a big meal, has been very full, but you need to eat another bowl of rice.
This pain is also like after you run for 20 kilometers, you have to continue to run for another 10 kilometers. It’s also the pain that you least wanted to do something at the time and asked you to do something.
If you can’t keep going, think about what the last thing you want to do at the time and do it, that is the right choice.
Keep thinking, stay awake, otherwise, we will plunge into the torrent of society, we will lose in it. Don’t go too far and don’t forget why you started in the first place.
What we do over and over again makes us, and then you find that excellence is not an act, but a habit. Think carefully, isn’t that the right answer?
Work hard is not easy, but living in fullness is the real joy of life.